Odds are, your toddler won't eat 3 full meals

Concerned your toddler won't eat 3 full meals?

 

 

 

Don't panic - most toddlers will only eat between 1 to 2 "meals" per day. Yes, it is true and it's perfectly fine.

 

 

 

If you think that your toddler should be eating a full meal at each mealtime, take heart - your toddler won't eat 3 "full" meals and further, does not need to eat 3 "full"  meals per day! What your toddler does need is at least 1000 calories per day, according to the AAP.

 

My Toddler does not eat at Dinner!

 

You will notice as the day progresses that your toddler becomes less and less hungry. Rest assured, it is common for toddlers to eat great at breakfast, eat "ok" at lunch and come dinner time, your toddler may eat either miniscule bites or leave behind a 99% full plate.

 

The AAP ( American Academy of Pediatrics )  recommends that children age 1 to 3 years get about 40 calories per inch of height a day.

 

Translation: Your 32-inch-tall toddler ideally should eat about 1,300 calories a day for normal growth and weight gain. These calories should come from the sources listed below as shown in the apple.

 

So what does this mean for My Toddler?

 

You should prepare balanced meals and healthy snacks for your toddler. Well balanced


quick tip for toddlersQUICK TIP

Your Toddler does NOT need to eat as much as you think he/she does!

 

Medical Professionals will tell you - children grow more slowly after the age of 12 months.

 

Hence, their caloric needs are less than what they were during the rapid growth period of newborn to 1 yr. old.

offerings, especially during snack time, will help you to overcome the inevitable lack of food intake during a meal.

 

For example, if your toddler does not drink all of his milk at breakfast, give him cheese for a snack. If your toddler refuses to eat his meat at lunch, give him tofu bites dusted with Cheerio or Granola crumbs for a snack.

 

In these examples, while you may lament at the lack of calcium and protein intake during breakfast and lunch, you have taken the opportunity to "make up for it" during snack time!

 

Toss out the idea that your Toddler will suddenly be eating "like the family" does!  Remember, your Toddler is still in a stage of slow-then-rapid-then-slow growth and is going through many changes! 

 

How Much Should I Try to Have my Toddler Eat per Day?

Daily Toddler Food Requirements

When planning and serving meals to your toddler, try to have him/or her consume the following on a daily basis:

 

  • 2 to 3 cups of calcium - milk (or yogurt, cheese or other calcium rich foods)

 

  • 4 servings of fruits and vegetables. (Serving size: one tablespoon per year of age.) One serving should be high in vitamin C and another in vitamin A.

 

  • 4 servings of grains - bread and cereal. One should be an iron-fortified baby cereal. A serving is about 1/4 to 1/3 an adult portion (1/4 slice toast, 1/4 cup pasta)

 

  • 2 servings of proteins - meat, beans, eggs, tofu, or peanut butter. A good serving of protein should be served at every meal. One serving equals 1/2 ounce. Courtesy of Parent'sPlace Nutritionist Q&A.

What is Considered a Serving Size for a Toddler?  

 

We find that feeding your Toddler becomes less complicated and frustrating when parents realize what a serving size for a Toddler really is. A good rule for serving sizes for toddlers is the following::

 

1 tablespoon per year of age or 1/4 of an adult serving per year of age 

 

At the next meal, use these measurements exactly and see for yourself how little food a Toddler should actually  be eating.  We bet you will be quite surprised!

 

Resources & Learning More:

 

USDA's Searchable Nutrient Database - Enter in any food and find it's nutrient content

Your Child's Growth - Dr. Sears

Feeding Infants and Toddlers by William Sears, MD

Nutritional guidelines for toddlers by Sue Gilbert, Consulting Nutritionist - Parent's Place

RDA for toddlers? by Sue Gilbert, Consulting Nutritionist - Parent's Place

Nutrient Information from the the American Society for Nutritional Sciences

 

 

toddler nutritional information


Toddlers Nutritional Needs


Calcium, Iron, Protein & More!


Toddlers & the Food Pyramid


The Picky Eater


Toddler Sample Menus

 

 

 

 

hint Offer your toddler the opportunity to choose what he wants to eat for 1 or 2 meals during the day.

 

Allowing your toddler to make his food choices will help teach him about the importance of healthy foods and diets. 



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updated 01 April 2009